Dating... No Truths

Dating is debatable.
The necessity is not verifiable.
Send me truths,
 that are most reliable.
Explaining when, and what I am supposed
To do.
Fools search for perfection in a person
Only to end up with years wasted.
But you dated for so long, when the truth
Was always in your face.
If only u listened when you FIRST asked
 God To show you if you should go forward
Do you still think you would have gone onward
Our hearts will get us killed, our minds
Work just fine.
Common sense ain't always common
But our senses  point out those signs.
Now look at you, fear has now set in.
The fucked up way shit ended is  keeping
You from how you should begin.
 no truths lie in dating, who are you really
Getting to know.
Just a few conversations are needed, and
The darkness will fade out
HE  will allow that light to show.
"UtterlySpeaking"

II Corinthians 4:18 NKJV

[18] while we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal.

https://bible.com/bible/114/2co.4.18.NKJV