Friday, April 22, 2011

Come on now people.....

This is a day where it does not matter where you are, who you are with, and what you are intending to do
There will always be these women with a bad build, and horrible wig, and a BAD ATTITUDE
it seems like every song about independent ladies is pointed towards them as if the song fits
when they know damn well, they never had shit, never did shit, and for the most part, really ain't about shit
I have spoke with, and identified with real women that have some things in their past to talk about
When your definition of struggle is having a house full of kids, and waiting on THOSE nothing ass niggas to  bail your nothing ass out
I wish this would stop, and the real ladies show these other women what it means to go through a hard time
I am not captain save a hoe, nor the dude next door to share with you everything that is mine.
what you need is a clue of what it means to actually work for a living and buy your own stuff
and not counting on another person to take care of you, as if your contribution to the relationship is enough
Any woman can open her legs, and yes women back in the day had a lot more respect for who they are
They did not just let any random prick, prick them, they would actually set the bar
Men would have to climb the top tree, to learn how you are suppose to lady
Love does not come from good sex, nor what a man could do for you, or not being accustom to having a house full of babies
NOW granted, I am a firm believer of this ladies, us nothing ass men have totally screwed it up for the good dudes
We have manipulated many things, and made you feel cheap, and causing you to do a lot of things that you do.
We are to blame for a lot of things, because we were not the men we should have been
But women, how about i ask if you would just try this again.
Us men have a lot of making up to do, because of how royally messed up we have become
But God made you women emotional creatures, he did not make you to be dumb.
This world was suppose to be managed by us, and i have seen you step up and take control
Well, how about we ALL step up, and learn our own role
I love you ladies, and do not worry, the men will get it in the end
God Will not hold you accountable for the role he gave us men
So once again, go and talk to Great grandmother, and learn how to become virtual again
Stop settling for bullshit than comes from us dudes, and stop surviving and living according to your past pain

1 comment:

  1. I agree 100% that we as women need to be able to hold our own and not depend on certain things from men we are dating. (I view things differently when it comes to marriage.) We shouldn't expect a man to do things for us that we can't do for ourselves (materialistically speaking :-)). I believe we put ourselves in a position to be taken advantage of when that happens.

    We have to know and accept our roles and not let our past hurts and failures in relationships dictate our lives in a negative way. That's not to say, disregard those hurts and failures, but to learn from them.

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